The secret to staying sweet in love

 

I accidentally walked down all the way, and we have never really separated during our time together. The longest breakup record is two days.

However, we are not perfect lovers:

Long-distance relationship. Cultural differences. Personality differences. First entry into society

We have all gone through

. Love period. Running-in period. Burnout period

We have also come step by step.

Of course, feelings are never the persistence of one person, they are inseparable from two people. Finally overcoming all difficulties, standing firmly beside each other.

.Burnout period. Is a threshold for the relationship between couples

Share the love skills of my boyfriend and I, and use our personal experience to show how couples get along!

Set a common goal

It is very important for two people to have a common direction and goal in love. The goal does not need to be big or grand, but it can be done by two people together.

1. Save money to travel together

2. Fitness plan for two people

3. Common deposit plan

4. Clean up together

5. Less racks are not overnight

6. Make a meal together every weekend

I think this is the basic long-term relationship!

Goals don’t have to be too grand, such as traveling together, working out together, etc.

Two people are moving towards the same goal, restraining each other

There is a goal to have the motivation to move forward!

Respect for ritual

First of all, I want to say that the sense of ritual mentioned here is not about spending a lot of money on high-end and gorgeous restaurants or hotels to take pictures during the festival, but two people preparing surprises for each other and preparing for the two people's festival. Don't ignore the true meaning of the festival just because you are too unexpected.

1. Prepare birthday surprises for your partner

2. Remember the love anniversary

3. Say good night to each other before going to bed

4. Record and save the lives of two people

5. Occasionally wear it with a couple before going out

6. Go to your favorite restaurant or watch a movie together on the weekend

My sense of ritual here is not "exquisite on the surface" ha

What I care more about is the mind

For example, he will occasionally bring back my favorite flowers and desserts

I will buy him favorite toast and puffs between work

Although they are small things, they are very warm. The sense of ceremony is provided by each other~

Be fresh

Many couples want to show their complete self to each other at the beginning, but after the love period, the unchanging self will make the other party lose interest, and their own improvement and trying new things will also add new "oxygen" to their relationship. .

1. Try different styles of dressing

2. Cultivate your own hobbies and new interests

3. Learn more about each other's hobbies and participate in it.

4. Mutual have their own space

5. Secretly improve, such as becoming beautiful and learning

6. Travel to new places together to try new things

The sense of freshness is not only maintained by two people, but also requires oneself

No one likes the unchanging life

Pay attention to self-improvement in the days together

Understand the different self and each other in each period and make progress together

Is the most interesting thing in love

If quarrel

Quarrels are common among couples. The first thing is to put your mindset in a right way: quarrels are the most common thing in interpersonal communication, and it is also a mode of communication. Even with his parents, there are disputes, let alone the other half of his life that has just entered his life?

1. Calm down your emotions and communicate with a good tone

2. Resolutely not cold war, not overnight

3. Nothing is true

4. One side has to step up, and one side has to go down

5. There is no absolute right or wrong, family only talks about love

6. Don't be overly negative and don't give up guessing easily

7. Everyone makes mistakes, learn to forgive

First of all, we must set our mindset: quarrels are very normal in interpersonal relationships.

Something you can't avoid even with your own parents, brothers and sisters

It's normal to argue with your partner

And quarreling is also a way of communication

Refusal to communicate is absolutely impossible, such as removing friends from the cold war

And don’t have an overnight hatred~

Emotional burnout period

This is a test period that most couples go through, and I certainly have it. At this time, the recorded details of life mentioned earlier come in handy! Many people who love each other disappeared on impulse at this time. Give yourself and each other more patience and hints. Overcoming this difficulty, it is stable and firm. It's love.

1. Look at the previous photos and sweet chat history more

2. Reflect on whether you have passed on emotions when you are intolerant of bombing

3. Bad emotions are easy to give to the closest people, long live the understanding

4. Care about each other's life and work status, communication is very important

5. Be confident and firm in their love

6. Try all the methods mentioned before

7. It takes time to get through this period, so be patient

This is a threshold period in the relationship, and it is painful when experiencing it, whether it is you or the other party. You need to give some gifts often to make life no longer plain. Perhaps the human size sex doll is a good choice when traveling in different places or not together on business trips. Both parties have just arrived to surprise, keep fresh. If it is not easy to move, then a cheap little sex doll with a small size is also good.

The burnout period and the work bottleneck tend to happen at the same time

When there is a situation where the other half is not pleasing to the eye

Reflect on yourself/observe whether the other party has encountered difficulties at work

Is there any emotional transfer

Communication is very important in this period, and understanding is also very important

At this time he may appreciate the opposite sex who is helpful to work or can be chatted

Is also the key to seeing a person clearly

a did not do anything beyond the boundary and was sober

Communicate well and help him analyze the reason and situation of the development

Know your bottom line, but forgiveness and tolerance are the final answer

Everyone is an ordinary person, and when they are confused, just rein in the cliff

b do something beyond the boundary

This person is not worthy of love

The slag belongs to hazardous waste

Tips for getting along

Affection is also a science. Just relying on enthusiasm does not necessarily lead to perfect love. When you learn how to get along well and express love better, stable and happy relationships belong to you.

1. Don't turn over the old accounts! Just settle the matter

2. Questions and dissatisfaction should be raised promptly, it is not good to think about it yourself

3. Don't entangle with your ex, it doesn't make sense

4. Self-discipline! Single! You can ask the other party if you do it yourself

5. Give each other space to communicate with friends, don't restrict too much

6. Give each other, it is not taken for granted that he is good for you

7. When you are separated for a long time and need to live together, you need to add a lot of novel toys to live in bed. Like vibrator, you can relax each other.

8. Don't break up at every turn, don't talk nonsense in anger

9. Don't be stingy to admit your mistakes, and cherish the concessions the other party makes

10. Cherish the other person's heart, don't be stingy with your praise and love words